Thursday, June 18, 2009

Deja Vu all over again

Why is it that we only fight about the same one or two things with our partners? You would think after having the same discussion over and over, it would get tired and we'd find new things to fight about.

Obviously, things are not being resolved, which is why we continue to have the same arguments. But how do you resolve those issues when you can't afford counseling, and all that you have tried is apparently not working?

1 comment:

  1. :hug
    It takes two to fight, remember that. Whatever he's saying/doing that gets you going - what is that trigering for you? What does that say to you?

    You cannot change him, you know that. But you CAN change your response to him. Think about that.

    What do you love about him? Keep that in mind. Maybe keep a gratitude journal about your relationship?